Some of their responses seem disrespectful at best and anxiety-inducing at worst. I think it’s natural for everyone to feel a certain way about an unexpected pregnancy.Do you have any advice on how to get over the pregnancy reaction?
mixture: Yes, people’s mixed feelings about unplanned pregnancies are justified. What I mean is people are entitled to their own feelings. However, when it comes to other people’s pregnancies and her choices regarding those pregnancies, people should keep their opinions, concerns, or anxieties to themselves.
When a woman announces her pregnancy, the reaction should be positive and supportive. If someone responds to you in a way that isn’t positive or supportive, they’ll wrap it up and reconnect with you, listen, talk, empathize (for that matter), and offer you support. is needed.
Empathy should flow from them to you. This is one of those situations where you shouldn’t carry the burden of empathizing with them. If you need support that you don’t have, you must have the courage to ask for it. The way you get past these reactions is the same way you go through this pregnancy. One day at a time. Experiencing pregnancy is like tracking time according to a slowly emptying “hourglass” that lasts nine months.
Every day brings new realizations, challenges, joy and excitement. It’s important to focus more on yourself and your family than on other people’s opinions. This is a great exercise for going through your baby’s first year of life. “One day at a time” is the wisest way to go, and time can slow down, but the year seems to fly by.
dear amy: I’m going through some tough times. I have always been strong and independent and I think I have been a good friend. not. Any suggestions?
feeling depressed: I publish your question as a tribute to a friend of mine (we go back a long time), recently contacted an update via group text, followed by her friend support now A statement followed that it was indeed available. She received it immediately.
When I spoke with her, I thanked her for giving me the opportunity to work together. told her She said her (very smart) daughter reminded her that asking for her help would give her a chance to serve the people she cares about.
To anyone who is hurting, asking for help is not only an act of bravery, but an act of respect for your relationship by giving people who care about you the avenue and opportunity to help. Please understand that there is… express their love and care.
I would like you to make this a “question”.
dear amy: “neighbors upstairs” She wondered if she should tell her downstairs neighbor that she heard loud snoring at night.
I live in a townhouse and my bedroom is adjacent to the next bedroom. My neighbor heard me snoring and told me I might have sleep apnea. I took the test and he was right! I started using a prescribed “Continuous Positive Pressure” (“CPAP”) device.
As a result, I no longer have a severe headache that lasts for hours when I wake up in the morning. That’s right, the upstairs neighbor should put her embarrassment aside and encourage her downstairs neighbor to see a doctor.
rested: I find it very helpful when readers contact me and share their own personal experiences on specific topics. Thank you for your offer.
© 2023 by Amy Dickinson.Distributed by Tribune Content Agency